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But, as much as I’m against comparing how love impacts different generations, there’s one thing I will give the people who cling to the assertion that dating is more difficult now.
We definitely have more stages of dating than any previous generation.
I never thought I would know what he wants, even after he had shut down when I asked him anything about what was going on in his heart. I couldn't believe it and I imagine he couldn't either, until one day I stumbled upon how to do this. It's what lead me directly to the root of his deepest desires and true way of thinking, feeling, and communicating.
The discovery of this new knowledge helped me speak his language and talk directly to his core being. I found a way to read a guy who was like a brick wall.
He quickly grew lazier about our relationship and just seemed like he got into his head and didn't want to share his feelings. He called me and told me that he just didn’t think things were working out, and that was that. I wanted to be over him, but, something just stuck with me.
My girlfriends advised that this is "normal" or typical and it may just be a phase or something. I knew that getting over breakups takes time, but at this point, it had been a few months already.
No woman should be out here “trying out” to become a man’s woman, giving all of herself to a guy who doesn’t have the courage or conviction to commit to her in the most basic way.
The truth is, the dudes who proclaim the delayed benefits for women who do the most while waiting out the “talking” stage, are mostly men who just want to sleep with as many women as possible while knowing that the woman they’re with is not out there doing the same. It’s a selfish and weak ploy that men use to discourage women from weighing multiple options at once, because if that happened, she might realize that she doesn’t have to stand for the garbage ol’ boy is putting her through.
As a typical Taurus man he was tenacious, hardworking, and oh so sensual. I thought I'll give him some space and I didn't want to be too intruding. On the plane, I went over what had happened in my mind so many times.
We don’t make them jump through hoops or complete arbitrary potential-girlfriend assessments. So, the next time you hear a dude tell you that you need to prove your worth as his future significant other during the “Netflix and chilling with no title” stage, please understand that just because he wants to be in you, doesn’t mean that he’s into you.
Lincoln Anthony Blades blogs daily on his site, This Is Your
What I meant was that relationship-minded single women should never settle for the BS ideology that the minimal title of “girlfriend” must be exhaustively auditioned for during an undefined situationship.
The idea that a woman should give a man her loyalty, her trust, her body, her soul and her spirit to a dude in order to gauge whether or not she “deserves” to receive monogamy is disrespectful.